En route to self-realization we all get lost. Some try to get actualization through others, and are lost further. To find yourself, look inside. Only then will the world and life begin make sense. Only then will you find yourself and happiness.
Myself, I'm still looking. Until I find it, and I won't find it in you, bear with me. Problems come and go, people change. If you can stand, and understand, then we will be friends for quite some time.